What am I applying for?

You are applying for a consensual, BDSM-focused golf experience within a Female-Led Relationship (FLR) dynamic. This includes:

  • Structured leadership, authority, and control

  • Negotiated service and attentiveness to my comfort

  • Playful teasing, guidance, and psychological dominance

  • Explicit submission during private sessions where agreed

This is not sexual companionship, escorting, or coaching. The experience is intentionally immersive, relational, and centered on power exchange, obedience, and erotic authority. This is not an application for a traditional session at The Lavender Vault or The Aviary.

Is sexual activity guaranteed?

No. Sexual access is never promised or implied. Any intimacy is:

  • Fully consensual

  • Negotiated in advance

  • Dependent on trust, compatibility, and the dynamic agreed upon

The emphasis of the experience is dominance, power exchange, and structured submission, not transactional sexual interaction.

What does “service” mean in this context?

Service is part of the negotiated FLR/BDSM dynamic. It may include:

  • Attentiveness to my comfort in public and private spaces

  • Anticipating needs and following behavioral expectations

  • Supporting the flow and rhythm of the experience

Service is symbolic and intentional, reinforcing your submissive role and the authority of the FLR. It is not employment or labor, but part of the power exchange.

How is consent handled?

Consent is explicit, ongoing, and foundational to the dynamic. This includes:

  • Safewords or equivalent signals established before private or BDSM interactions

  • Boundaries and limits discussed and respected without exception

  • Ability to withdraw consent at any point, with immediate compliance

Respecting consent is non-negotiable and forms the framework for all dominant/submissive interaction.

Can the experience end early?

Yes. I reserve the right to modify, pause, or terminate the experience at any time if:

  • Consent is violated or ignored

  • Boundaries are not respected

  • Service expectations or submissive roles are not followed

This ensures safety, authority, and the integrity of the FLR/BDSM dynamic. Decisions are final.

What are the risks involved?

Participation involves inherent emotional, psychological, and situational risks associated with:

  • BDSM and power-exchange dynamics

  • Public and private dominant/submissive interaction

  • Travel, events, and luxury environments

By applying, you acknowledge and accept these risks. The experience is intended for adults capable of informed, voluntary submission.

Is this coaching, therapy, or instruction?

No. Nothing offered constitutes:

  • BDSM education or certification

  • Therapy, counseling, or mental health treatment

  • Performance or golf instruction

This is an experience in dynamic, presence, and structured submission, not a professional service.

What about discretion?

Discretion is mandatory. You agree to:

  • Never record or document interactions without written consent

  • Keep identity and details confidential before, during, and after the experience

  • Respect privacy as an essential element of the dynamic

How does travel work?

  • Destination experiences and tournament attendance are custom-tailored

  • Clients are responsible for travel, accommodations, and related expenses

  • Compliance with venue rules and conditions is expected

The FLR dynamic remains consistent regardless of location or environment.

Who is this experience for?

Ideal applicants are men who:

  • Respect and desire female authority and structured dominance

  • Are capable of willing submission and attentive service

  • Value discretion, composure, and intentional engagement

  • Appreciate playful, teasing, and erotic dominance dynamics

  • Can navigate luxury environments with confidence and respect

Who is this experience not for?

Not suitable for men who:

  • Expect guaranteed sexual access

  • Seek casual companionship or escort services

  • Cannot respect FLR authority, consent, or boundaries

  • Are unwilling to participate in structured, negotiated submission

  • Disregard discretion or privacy

How are applications reviewed?

Applications are personally and carefully reviewed. Selection is based on:

  • Alignment with FLR and BDSM dynamics

  • Understanding and respect of consent, limits, and service

  • Maturity, discretion, and emotional presence

  • Compatibility with the specific power exchange intended

Not all applicants are accepted. Declines may not include explanation.

Follow-up and timeline

  • Reviews typically take 3–7 business days

  • Selected applicants may receive a brief compatibility conversation

  • Accepted applicants will receive confirmation, terms, deposit instructions, and logistics

Final acknowledgment

By submitting your application, you confirm that you:

  • Understand this is a BDSM-focused FLR experience, not sexual companionship

  • Accept all outlined risks, consent practices, and submission expectations

  • Agree to provide attentive service, maintain discretion, and respect authority

  • Acknowledge that submission, where negotiated, is required, intentional, and integral to the experience