“I happen to see the world a little different. sometimes it sparkles, sometimes it’s dark and mysterious. either way, i’m going to enjoy it.”

Ashley B. Hawthorn

My favorite scenes tend to involve the activities described here, though My curiosity has few real limits. I love discovering new kinks, exploring obscure fetishes, and creating fantasies that exceed what either of us imagined alone.

Bring Me your ideas. The hidden ones, the ones that make you flush to say out loud. This is a judgment-free space for the kinks that live in the dark corners, and I genuinely enjoy the ones that make people blush to admit. Let's build something extraordinary together.

All new applicants are interviewed before their first session. I only engage in activities I find appropriate for each individual, and every experience is shaped accordingly.

Each experience with Me is not just an encounter but a journey. A carefully crafted exploration of power dynamics and playful pleasures. I thrive on anticipation, building upon each session, leading you deeper into your desires. I work best when I have a sense of what you crave and the creative freedom to design an experience fitted to your interests, goals, or the dynamic itself. I enjoy recurring, cohesive sessions that build upon each other, whether through a custom training program, a deepening exploration of a specific activity, or a gradual expansion of limits and a reframing of old beliefs.

Index of Offerings & Passions

CORPORAL, IMPACT PLAY & SPANKING

Surrender to My collection of impact tools, floggers, paddles, canes, crops, or simply My small yet aggressively firm hand for an OTK spanking, a personal favorite. Impact play is an extraordinarily thrilling union of pleasure and pain. I find deep satisfaction in watching you transcend your limits and trust Me to take you deeper into your pleasure through impact. There is nothing quite like the sounds a body makes when it finally lets go.

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CBT OR BALL BUSTING

This is where I love to play. I bring genuine creativity and sadistic skill to every CBT session, tying, edging, slapping, clamping, squeezing, teasing, and tormenting with equal delight. Let Me tie you from wrist to cock and see how still you can stay while I torment your precious manhood. I am constantly stocking the studio with new toys to push the limits further. Want to be leashed, weighted, and tested? Or perhaps you are brave enough to request the ultimate ball busting session, testing your strength against these strong, flexible legs as I bring you to your knees with one swift kick or a slow, deliberate build of intensity. Either way, you will not forget it.

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BONDAGE & RESTRAINT

Explore the singular satisfaction of being rendered completely helpless. I use cuffs, rope, and more to bind you tightly, tied to My cross, My table, My bench, or in positions you never anticipated. My love of rope work weaves its way through many of My scenes. There is something extraordinary about the sensation of rope being wrapped, tied, knotted, and pulled taut against skin. For those who want to go further, experience full mummification, wrapped head to toe and fully encased, entirely at My mercy.

CONFINEMENT

Overnight confinement exclusively at The Aviary, Harrisburg PA

Experience extended confinement and overnight scenes. Be held captive for as long as I desire, tied, caged, confined, and kept until I decide to release you. If surrendering your full night to My control is the fantasy, this is where it lives. Both The Lavender Vault and The Aviary are equipped for extended confinement scenes, with exclusive overnight confinement available at The Aviary in Harrisburg.

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FULL SLUT TRAINING · STRAPS & SLUTS

This is My favorite form of power exchange, the ultimate expression of feminine dominance. Submit your full body to a petite and powerful Goddess as I bend you over or strap you down and teach you precisely what it means to be a perfect little slut for Me. I will press every right button until you are moaning, whimpering, and begging for more, transformed into the creature you were always meant to be. I love this type of session because it allows Me to exert My power across a full range of intensity levels, drawing out your ultimate submission in whatever way pleases Me most.

TIE, TEASE & EDGE TRAINING

Few things bring Me as much delight as watching you squirm. Tied tight, teased relentlessly, edged until desperation bleeds into every sound you make, then denied. I crave those helpless whimpers, moans, and groans. Using every means of pleasurable torture at My disposal, I will have you begging for the glimmer of sweet release, then take it away again. This is patience as power. You will leave utterly undone.

FOOT FETISHES

I adore having My feet worshipped, massaged, and admired. The feel of a devoted tongue between My toes sends shivers of pleasure through Me. But nothing rivals the rush of dominating you with My feet, pressing them against your face, watching your expression, seeing exactly how much you can take. I crave attention for My tiny, perfect toes. Want them stinky? I will make it happen. Sweaty gym socks? I will send them your way. I am a foot play enthusiast in every sense, and I love every aspect of it.

LEG AND FOOT WORSHIP

Why stop there? My beautiful, muscular legs deserve to be pampered with affection, worshipped, and adored. Sensual, graceful, and powerful, you will spend considerable time imagining what it feels like to have them wrapped around you, squeezing. But you may never know more than the exquisite privilege of touching them. My petite feet love to be kissed or playfully pushed into your face, in hose, socks, or bare. Shoes, boots, and heels are My favorite ways to be spoiled, and then to spoil you with the gift of watching Me wear them as you kiss the soles I walk upon.

TRAMPLING AND SMOTHERING

Imagine being captive beneath Me, unable to escape. That is just a taste of what trampling or smothering under My beautiful body feels like. For trampling, lie still as playful athleticism meets skilled dominance. With safety and precision as My foundation, I use studio equipment, overhead bars for stability and a trample board, to artfully stamp My feet across your body, walk along you deliberately, or dangle My feet in your face in a way that is entirely, uniquely Me. For smothering, experience the remarkable sensation of being sat upon by a Goddess, the weight of My divine presence pressing down on you. Perhaps you long to be smothered and worship this perfect body as I take your breath away. Maybe I cuff your hands to My smother box and let you wonder whether I will grant you escape.

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MEDICAL FANTASIES / MEDFET

There is something intoxicating about the unique vulnerability that the examination room creates. When I put on My lab coat, something shifts in the air, and I enjoy every moment of your discomfort and curiosity. Submit to My thorough exam. Watch My face light up as I introduce you to sensations unlike anything you have experienced elsewhere. The limits of comfort, pleasure, and sensation explored in ways most people never dare to discover. For the most immersive medical experience, The Rose Wing at The Aviary awaits.

ELECTRO

For those who crave sensation at its most precise and unpredictable, electro play delivers something unlike anything else in the dungeon. Using professional-grade equipment, violet wands, TENS units, and more, I can reduce you to a trembling, gasping creature with nothing more than current and creativity. The sensation ranges from a delicate tingle dancing across skin to a sharp, commanding strike that reminds you exactly who is in control. I take genuine pleasure in watching the anticipation build. Not knowing where it will land next is half the experience. Care, clear communication, and absolute trust are brought to every session. If you have never experienced it, prepare to be converted.

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WET & WILD

Drip in water play, explore wet torment and play in spaces designed for getting messy. An anointment for some and an act of humility for others, feel the powerful intimacy of being claimed. The warm rush as you lie beneath while I mark you as entirely Mine, feel it, bathe in it, or taste every delicious drop of excitement. There is nothing quite like belonging to someone completely. The Lavender Vault's dedicated Rain Stall and The Aviary's custom Golden Swallow suite each offer their own distinct and extraordinary version of these wet experiences.

SPLOSHING AND FOOD PLAY

Let's get absolutely filthy. Sploshing, Wet & Messy play, transforms your fantasies of degrading, delicious chaos into vivid reality. A whipped cream pie smashed into your face, pudding poured overhead, or an elaborate humiliation role play that ends with you thoroughly covered and grinning. Playful, degrading, messy, and unlike anything else. A specialty of a very creative Creatrix. Featured exclusively at The Lavender Vault.

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TICKLING & TICKLE TORTURE

There is something uniquely delicious about a kink that weaponizes something as innocent as a touch. Tickling as torment sits at a fascinating intersection of laughter and helplessness, and I find it endlessly entertaining. Bound and completely at My mercy, you will have no control over your body's response as I locate every sensitive spot and exploit it without apology. The harder you laugh, the more I enjoy Myself. Feathers, fingernails, brushes, or simply the slow threat of what is coming next, tickle torture is a study in anticipation and involuntary surrender. The loss of control is total, and the dynamic is unmistakably Mine.

SENSATION PLAY & SENSORY DEPRIVATION

Let Me spin a web around your senses, using touch, sound, sight, and more to send your mind and body into a spiral of sensation as I manipulate each one to My liking. Indulge in full deprivation as I remove each sense until you are transformed into a subspace void, captive, anticipating, alive to the slightest vibration in the room as I tease and torment your heightened body. This is control at its most intimate and precise.

OBJECTIFICATION, EXHIBITIONISM AND PUBLIC PLAY

Shall I display you? Do you desire to be My object, My mindless, purposeful thing? A table, a chair, a statue fixed in the corner of the room? Objectification is a delightful kink that brings a particular kind of creativity to a scene. If I want you to be a lamp, you will be My lamp, and you will be grateful for the assignment. Going deeper, perhaps you are My object to parade and show off, to use in a public scene to be ridiculed, admired, or devoured by hungry eyes. Join Me at an evening or a multi-day event as My servant and My toy. The possibilities become endless with you attached to a leash at My side.

Note: elaborate public scenes are performed exclusively in kink-friendly spaces.

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DOMESTIC SERVICE, MAID TRAINING
AND FLR IMMERSION

For the true service subs there are always chores and ways to serve. Find your place as My dutiful servant or Maid. Clean, tend and tidy My Dungeon to My specifications. Learn the honor, privilege and purpose that comes with being a true servant to a Goddess. Dress as My butler, My sissy maid or My pet and provide the ultimate care for your Mistress. Small to big task available for those who simply desire to enrich My life and make the little things easier. At the Aviary, dive even deeper. Experience a full day as an TPE service sub including preparing of meals, taking care of the house and allowing Me to be pampered in luxury not lifting a finger while I control your every move. When all the chores are done, we play, then I lock you away until the morning. 

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DINNER DATES & DOMINATION

Desire something a little different? Step away from the dungeon for Dinner and Domination, or propose another interesting date. Here we engage in something more casual with a discreet and dominating edge. Think kinky banter that makes you blush, a hidden device, a quiet order to perform a discreet task. Carry My items, experience a power exchange dynamic with just enough of a kinky edge to keep things interesting, perhaps ending back at the studio when dinner is done.

CHASTITY & DEVOTION

Do you desire to learn what it truly means to be controlled? Nothing pleases Me more than knowing your devotion is locked away and dedicated entirely to Me. Let Me design your chastity journey, a slow, deliberate path of submission shaped by My dominance and tailored specifically to you. Be comforted knowing that a powerful Goddess holds the key to your release.

HUMILIATION

From SPH or mocking your inadequacies to compelling you to perform degrading tricks and filthy tasks, humiliation runs a wide and delicious range, and I like to indulge in it fully and playfully. The further I push, the deeper you will want to go, and I enjoy that unraveling enormously. I take time to learn the specific architecture of your humiliation fetish and weave it through the session in the ways that amuse Me most. From gentle mockery to outright degradation, it is all fair game.

FLOOF SESSIONS

One of My more playful and unique humiliation offerings is what I call My “Floof sessions”. Whether it lands for you as deeply degrading or outrageously funny depends entirely on you, and I find both reactions equally entertaining. A Floof session incorporates flatulence as an element of play, used to humiliate, to assert dominance, or simply to push your limits. If this particular flavor of humiliation speaks to something you have never been able to ask for before, you have found the right Mistress.

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CROSS DRESSING, FEMINIZATION, AND SISSIFICATION

It is time to transform you into the woman you are inside, or at the very least, the one I want you to be. This fetish can take you in many directions. Perhaps you are a masculine submissive who must be forced into femininity for My pleasure, turned into My doll to dress and play with. Perhaps there is a shy, trapped girl inside who has been waiting to come out of hiding. Or perhaps you are the slutty bimbo who simply needs to face who she really is. Dressing you up and stepping you into a feminine version of yourself produces a full range of emotions, from completely liberating to utterly humiliating, and I enjoy every shade of it.

ROLEPLAY

It is no surprise that I love the different hats and roles that BDSM experience makes possible. Roleplay taps into My creativity and lets My most unique talents shine. This is where My Creatrix style truly emerges, taking a simple idea or theme and building an elaborate, immersive fantasy scene around it. I have been a teacher, a warden, a cheerleader, a lunch lady, and many things in between. These sessions are often the most memorable and the most fun to recall afterward. Bring Me a character, a premise, or just a spark of an idea, and let Me work My magic.

MOMMY DOMME & ABDL

Playing the role of the Mother in BDSM scenes comes naturally to Me when it fits the right submissive. I find genuine enjoyment across many dimensions of this dynamic, all in My own distinct style. Whether that means a discerning disciplinarian, a humiliating Mommy, or a nurturing and kinky caretaker, I embrace this role fully with those engaging in consensual, negotiated adult age-play, including diaper play and little space.

PUPPY, PET AND PONY PLAY

Be My pet. Dig into your animal persona with Me and explore the world of pet play. Whether you are My naughty, mischievous puppy or My regal pony, this is a kink I find consistently rewarding and fun. Together we can develop a training program, build deeper immersion, and work toward acquiring the gear that makes your life as My pet feel real, structured, and entirely Mine to direct.

SWEAT & YOGA FETISHES

Yoga is a part of My life and a part of My kinks. Are you desperate to taste, feel, or smell the power I produce from a yoga practice? Request a session incorporating My worn yoga clothes, become My devoted little yoga sweat enthusiast, desperate for every drop. Serve as My drying rack, or be smothered under sweaty yoga leggings and underwear. Or perhaps it is not the sweat at all, it is the leggings, the poses, or the particular thrill of being forced through yoga while a leather-clad Mistress shouts commands and enforces your form. When your yoga fetish is kinky, I get creative.

CUCKOLDING TRAINING

Available Virtually and for very select in-person clients
Teasing and tormenting a devoted little cuck is something I genuinely delight in. Watching you desperate for what you cannot have, that particular quality of longing, is deeply satisfying. Let Me use the arousal of your denial to fuel My own pleasure. Perhaps you will withstand the training long enough for Me to put you in a chair and show you up close what a real lover looks like. By the end of your time with Me, you will understand clearly and completely exactly what you were always destined to be.

WOMEN

Feel the comfort of submitting to a woman who is both the nurturing soul and the dominating leader you crave. Explore your limits with a strong Dominatrix who can guide you toward a better version of yourself. My work with women is extraordinarily powerful. I can take you to a place you may have never been before. My journey as a dominant began with women, and that is where I shine in ways that are difficult to describe and impossible to forget. I can read your body and your energy, provide the safety that allows you to soar into submission, and hold you gently as you land.

COUPLES

I work with couples to deepen connection and enrich relationships, introducing new ways to explore together and encouraging genuine sexual and emotional growth within an existing dynamic. This can be explored in many forms, including cuckolding themes with no additional males involved.

TPE FITNESS BASED DOMINATION: If you are looking to improve your fitness discipline through submission to a strong, fit Domme, FitDom training with Me is the answer. Together we design a fitness program that uses your devotion and obedience as an integral element of your training. This can range from a full total power exchange structure to accountability-based coaching, complete with funishments and punishments to enforce discipline and push your limits further. Your submission becomes the engine for your transformation. From light structure to extreme fitness control, I will design something entirely bespoke to your needs, available online or in-person at The Lavender Vault.

The following offers incorporate My love of health and fitness into your submission and devotion to Me. While not traditional BDSM sessions the following offers are for those looking to use our dynamics in their fitness regime. By using devotion and obedience within our Dynamic you can leverage that as motivation to improve your health and body.

YOGA CLASSES: As a certified yoga teacher, I offer three distinct private yoga experiences for submissives and couples at both studio locations. Power Submission Yoga, Submission Flow, and Couples Connection Yoga are each designed with intention and available by appointment only.

GOLF COMPANION: A distinct and separate offering. See the dedicated Golf Experiences page for full details.